“He Saw Them and Ran to Welcome Them” – The Timeless Jewish Value of Hachnasat Orchim
"He saw them and ran from the entrance of the tent to greet them."Genesis 18:2 One of the most inspiring examples of hospitality in the Torah is found in the life of Avraham Avinu (Abraham our Patriarch). Even though he was elderly, recovering from his circumcision, physically weak, and enduring the intense desert heat, Avraham did not hesitate for a moment when he noticed three travelers approaching. Instead of asking one of his many servants to care for the guests, he personally ran to greet them, invited them into his home, prepared food, and attended to every detail himself. His devotion to the mitzvah of Hachnasat Orchim—welcoming guests—knew no limits. This extraordinary combination of selflessness, genuine kindness, and sensitivity to another person's needs became part of the spiritual heritage of the Jewish people. Throughout history, it has been reflected in the lives of our greatest Torah leaders. The following true stories about the Chofetz Chaim beautifully demonstrate how deeply this mitzvah shaped his everyday life. The Guest for Whom the Chofetz Chaim Waited This story was related by Rabbi Kalman Epstein, son of Rabbi Zelig Epstein, the former Rosh Yeshiva of Shaar HaTorah in Queens, who heard it directly from his uncle, Rabbi Leib. When Rabbi Leib was just fourteen years old, he was studying in a yeshiva in Russia and began the long journey home to Stutchin, Poland. His train was scheduled to leave on Thursday afternoon, allowing him barely enough time to arrive before Shabbat. However, the train was severely delayed and did not depart until Thursday night. By Friday morning it became obvious that reaching home before Shabbat would be impossible. Rabbi Leib asked the conductor which stations the train would stop at, hoping one of them had a Jewish community where he could spend Shabbat. To his delight, one stop was near the town of Radin, home of the legendary Chofetz Chaim, who happened to be his elderly relative. Excited by the opportunity, he left the train and hurried toward Radin as quickly as possible. When he arrived, the Chofetz Chaim's wife warmly welcomed him and explained that her husband had already gone to the synagogue. Every Friday evening he would arrive early in order to study Torah with those who gathered before the prayers began. Seeing how exhausted the young traveler was after his difficult journey, she suggested that he rest for a short while before going to synagogue. Within moments, the weary boy fell into a deep sleep. A Mystery After Midnight When Rabbi Leib finally awoke, he found the Chofetz Chaim quietly sitting at the Shabbat table studying from a sefer. The great sage greeted him warmly and instructed him to wash his hands, pray Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma'ariv, and then join the Shabbat meal. Only after the young guest had finished praying did the Chofetz Chaim call his wife to the table. Together, the elderly rabbi, his wife, and their young guest enjoyed the Shabbat meal. Afterward, the Chofetz Chaim excused himself and retired for the night. Rabbi Leib attempted to fall asleep again but could not. While walking through the kitchen, he noticed a small clock that read 4:00. He stared at it in disbelief. How could it possibly be four o'clock? Surely dawn could not be only a few hours away. Looking outside, he saw complete darkness and assumed the clock must be broken. Confused, he returned to bed. The Secret Behind the Clock The next morning, he asked the rebbetzin about the strange clock. She smiled. "The clock was perfectly accurate," she replied. "But when did we actually begin the meal?" he asked. "Did I really sleep that long?" She then revealed what had happened. "When my husband returned home from synagogue, you were sleeping so deeply that I wanted to wake you for Kiddush." "But the Chofetz Chaim stopped me." "He said that after such a difficult journey, you clearly needed the rest. We would wait until you woke up." As the hours passed and the young guest continued sleeping, the Chofetz Chaim instructed his wife and son to make Kiddush and eat without him. He himself refused to begin his own Shabbat meal. Instead, he sat and learned Torah while waiting patiently for his guest to awaken. Only after Rabbi Leib finally woke up did the Chofetz Chaim make Kiddush and eat his own Shabbat meal together with him. The rebbetzin concluded, "You slept for several hours, but my husband insisted that he would not begin his Shabbat meal before welcoming his guest." Had Rabbi Leib never questioned the clock, neither the Chofetz Chaim nor his wife would ever have mentioned what they had done. Their remarkable act of kindness would have remained completely unknown. Testing the Bed Himself Another story illustrates the Chofetz Chaim's extraordinary concern for every guest's comfort. Rabbi David Koldetzky related that his father, Rabbi Shechna Koldetzky, told him about an experience of his own father, Rabbi Chaim Koldetzky, a distinguished rabbi and former student of the famous Volozhin Yeshiva. During one visit, Rabbi Chaim spent the night in the home of the Chofetz Chaim. The Chofetz Chaim personally prepared the guest's bed, carefully arranging the pillow and blankets. Then, to Rabbi Chaim's complete astonishment, the elderly sage briefly lay down on the bed himself. He wanted to make sure it was comfortable. Only after personally testing the mattress did he feel satisfied that his guest would enjoy a restful night's sleep. The Legacy of True Jewish Hospitality The Torah teaches us that genuine hospitality is far more than opening our front door. It means recognizing another person's needs before they ask. It means sacrificing our own comfort so someone else can feel at home. Avraham Avinu demonstrated this ideal when he ran to welcome complete strangers despite his own pain. Thousands of years later, the Chofetz Chaim lived that same lesson in every detail of his life. Whether delaying his own Shabbat meal for hours or personally testing a bed to ensure a guest's comfort, he showed that true greatness is measured not only by scholarship, but by compassion, humility, patience, and unwavering care for others. His example continues to inspire Jewish homes around the world, reminding us that every guest is an opportunity to fulfill one of Judaism's most beautiful mitzvot: Hachnasat Orchim.